When we react strongly in a conversation, the cause is often not the moment itself but something older, something historical. This post explores how past voices shape present conflicts, and how choosing your voice of today can break old patterns and transform communication.
The Challenging Power of Perspective
I caught myself slipping into the very us-versus-them thinking I dislike so much. This post is about that confronting mirrorโand about the challenging power of perspective that colors, widens, and softens everything.
โจ โIn the endโฆ what will be your legacy?โ
In the end, what truly matters isnโt status or success โ itโs love. When life slows down, we realise that connection, compassion and presence shape our real legacy. This reflection explores why love remains our most meaningful compass and how choosing love today defines the legacy we leave behind.
Trust the season youโre in
A tender reflection on entering the autumn of life โ where emotions become compass needles, softness returns, and we no longer need to choose between sadness and joy, doubt and trust. A season of letting go, of knowing, and of learning to live with the questions.
The Power of Power
Iโve always had a complicated relationship with power. Then I read: โPower is merely a means to an end. The ends must also be virtuous.โ This insight helped me make peace with my ambivalence.
A Moment of (No) Opinion
In a world where everyone has something to say, maybe wisdom lies in knowing when not to. To choose a moment of (no) opinion.
The Train Keeps on Rushing Byโฆ
Sometimes it takes a simple hug โ and a long pause โ to realise that the people closest to us deserve more of our time, presence, and heart.
Amor Fati: a whispered โyesโ to Life
On finding joy in both the gentle & the rough edges of existence Life doesnโt always unfold the way we expect. Yet within the twists, storms, and silences lies an invitation: to embrace what is, fully and gently. Amor Fatiโa whispered yes to lifeโcan open the door to freedom, resilience, and unexpected joy. Iโm lucky to... Continue Reading →
Through โฅ๏ธโฆall becomes
I was listening to Ram Dass, and he was talking about Rumi.Thatโs how I came across this poem of his โ too beautiful not to share, right? Recently, I had a really lovely conversation with what I would call a colleague โ both literally & figuratively: someone who, like me, hopes to warm the world.... Continue Reading →
Raise our standards, not our voice
I see the worldโs problems, even though I avoid the news. Because my โฅ๏ธ canโt bear all the violence & injustice. We may not be able to do much thatโs truly impactful, but not everything is far from our own doorstep. I wondered what image our young people have of growing up. Perhaps mainly more... Continue Reading →
When music moves the heart to love in action
When music lifts you up and carries you along in a stream of sound, as if youโre traveling to the most beautiful destination imaginable. About the journey I made with thousands of others during Ludovico Einaudiโs concert.
A revolution of love
There is loveโฆ& then there is Love. Do you join me in a revolution of love & love as โlove in actionโ?
Truly listening is love in action โฃ๏ธ
Have you ever wanted so much to be heard that listening became nearly impossible?โจAs a mediator, I see this daily.โจThis is the story of B and F. Beneath the legal and financial issues from their journey through divorce lay deeper patterns and a shared history.
Inhala-exhala: we all share the true essence of life.
Inhala & exhaleโฆwe all share the essence of life through breathing. โฃ๏ธ๐
Be the change: choose โค๏ธ & kindness
Be the change: choose love & kindness
