If It’s Hysterical, It’s Probably Historical

When we react strongly in a conversation, the cause is often not the moment itself but something older, something historical. This post explores how past voices shape present conflicts, and how choosing your voice of today can break old patterns and transform communication.

The mini-reactor inside me

Creaking stairs during a concert, a zipper with velcro, relentless coughing… Small annoyances that sometimes feel like someone’s throwing a match into my gas cloud. On reactivity, the confusion around mindfulness, and why I prefer being mindless over mind-full.

✨ “In the end… what will be your legacy?”

In the end, what truly matters isn’t status or success — it’s love. When life slows down, we realise that connection, compassion and presence shape our real legacy. This reflection explores why love remains our most meaningful compass and how choosing love today defines the legacy we leave behind.

Trust the season you’re in

A tender reflection on entering the autumn of life — where emotions become compass needles, softness returns, and we no longer need to choose between sadness and joy, doubt and trust. A season of letting go, of knowing, and of learning to live with the questions.

The Power of Power

I’ve always had a complicated relationship with power. Then I read: ‘Power is merely a means to an end. The ends must also be virtuous.’ This insight helped me make peace with my ambivalence.

Raise our standards, not our voice

I see the world’s problems, even though I avoid the news. Because my ♥️ can’t bear all the violence & injustice. We may not be able to do much that’s truly impactful, but not everything is far from our own doorstep. I wondered what image our young people have of growing up. Perhaps mainly more... Continue Reading →

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